They Don’t Like Me

“Let me tell you what they said about you!” In my travels recently, I’ve been hearing about things people have been saying about me that just aren’t true. People that I would think of as friends who are apparently saying things about that they know are bold face lies, but they are saying it anyway, sometimes even in public forums!

Yeah.

I think we have all had this happen at some point in time or another. So, what do I do? Do I stoop to their level and call them out publicly? Do I confront them? Do I cut them out of my life? Do I ignore them? Do I forgive them?

Well, I don’t know your situation exactly or the depth of relationship you have with them. Is their relationship important to you? Then fight for it! Confront them lovingly, give them a chance to explain themselves, and then forgive them. Is it someone who is just an acquaintance? Dont waste your time, breath or energy. Forgive them and keep moving on with your life. Do not give them the pleasure of seeing the result they were after: bringing you down. Keep rising. Keep shining! However, just because you forgive someone, doesn’t mean that you are not fully aware of the kind of person they are, and will adjust your actions accordingly. When they show you who they are, believe them. 

What about what they said?

Your character is stronger than your reputation. Your reputation is what others say about you. Your character is who you really are! Your character will always outshine and win over what others say about you. Those who know you will instantly know the truth anyway. Just close your eyes, turn up the music to drown out the noise, and keep dancing!